5 signs that your guy is just playing around with you

Hello everyone , Today I’m writing this one for all the girls out there. I’m a guy which is why I know how most guys are. I’m not saying there are no good guys left in this world because that is a lie. There also no denying the fact that nowadays girls are much more loyal and sincere than guys. Well don’t worry because I know exactly how play boys act around the girl they are playing around with. I’m sharing this with you because I believe that every woman should be treated with the respect she deserves. So today I bring you the top five signs that your guy is not serious about you and if I help and save even one girl from getting hurt badly in the future I will believe that I accomplished my goal.

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Top 5 signs that your guy is not serious about you
1. If he hates the idea of taking it slow

The first and a very obvious sign that he’s a play boy is that he wouldn’t like the idea of taking things slow and by things I mean the relationship . A guy who genuinely loves you would not care about such petty things and would worry about the bigger picture. In other words even if you tell him you don’t want to kiss him until marriage trust me he would be happy to respect whatever your opinion is. Someone who gets mad at you for not letting him kiss you or sleep with you is a guaranteed asshole. Now you know what to do when you see this red flag or sign in the future.

2. If he doesn’t want to introduce you to his family and friends

This is another serious red flag and sign you want to look for in your guy in order to get an idea of him. Guys who are not planning to have a future with you would obviously not want you to meet his parents and even his close friends . You might be wondering why is that well it’s because most of their parents are not aware of the evil a**holes they are. They won’t want to ruin their fake image introducing someone they don’t even plan to marry I hope you got my point.

3. If he is always on the phone even when he’s supposed to give time to you

A guy who likes to play with your feelings would do anything to keep you from finding out about his real intentions. If your guy is very protective about his phone and doesn’t let you hold it even if you want to make an important call that means he has something to hide. Along with that if he’s always talking to someone on call and when you ask him he comes up with different excuses every time then you need to be careful. I’m sure he would do his best to keep his phone with him at all times but you have to find a reason to get your hands on it somehow. Only then you would be sure and have something to make him confess to what he’s been doing. Try to stay away from such guys whenever you come across them so they don’t get a chance to lure you in a relationship with them.

4. He doesn’t get jealous or even seem to care if you go out with a guy friend

I know it’s important to trust your partner if you want a healthy relationship. Listen up its not that we don’t trust you when you go out for shopping or dinner with your guy best friend . If a guy is jealous of you going out with a guy friend it’s not because he’s over protective but that he loves you alot. He just doesn’t trust that guy you’re going with. To be honest he can’t even stand the thought of the love of his life out with someone else. So if your guy doesn’t care at all about you going out with your guy friends it’s because he doesn’t care and is not serious about you.

5. If you catch him staring at other girls very often even when you’re around

A guy who is serious about you and having a future with you will be lost in your love and to him no one else would mean more than you . Someone who checks out other women when you are with him clearly shows that he has no respect for you. He will leave you for another woman the first chance they get . I would say you recognise his intentions and get done with the likes of him ASAP before he gets a chance to hurt you .

If you liked this post then do check out another amazing post regarding the differences between a man and woman in love http://www.thedailylearners.com/difference-between-a-man-and-a-woman-in-love/

Top 10 things that people do which are just not worth it

Hello everyone , I know that I haven’t been able to post anything for a whole week due to some personal reasons but good news is that I’m back with a very interesting article for you guys and I hope that you like it.

We are all human beings and none of us is perfect, what I’m trying to say here is that at the end of the day we all make honest mistakes but there’s a hell lot of difference between making a genuine mistake and doing something stupid or highly in-appropriate on purpose. What makes me sad is the fact that most of the people who chose to do such things are aware of the fact that it’s just not going to be worth it but they still choose to do it anyways. Today I bring you my list of the top 10 things that people do which are just not worth it and just so you know this list is strictly only based on my opinion so let’s start off with it shall we?

1. Arguing with a fool

The first thing that’s just not worth it on my list is arguing with a stupid person. Trust me guys this one I am speaking from my own experience and no matter what you say to them or how right you are they won’t even bother understanding your point it’s exactly like pissing into a fan.

2. Having regrets

A majority of people struggle with having regrets from the past and it’s also one of the biggest causes of stress. Life is too short for this bullshit and we all only live once so learn to accept your mistake, apologise and move forward.

3. Getting a divorce

I’ve personally witnessed many lives that are destroyed because of divorce. I’m not saying that you should stay in a toxic relationship all I’m trying to say here is that try to choose wisely at first so you don’t have to deal with it later on because then in most cases is too late and lives are destroyed specially the children that you have by then are the ones who are mostly affected by it.

4. Impressing others

Did you know that most of the people buy fancy things they can’t even afford just to impress the people who don’t even care. Don’t waste all that hard earned money over useless things and it’s much better to build wealth than just a temporary image.

5. Fighting with your loved ones

I’m not saying that it’s wrong to disagree with someone infact do it if you think you should and even argue with them when you think they are wrong or bring unreasonable but atleast learn to fight fair with them. Attack the problem and not each other so your love and relationship with them grows even more stronger.

6. Choosing a career just for the money

This one is a major problem with humans and a mistake that many people make until later on when they realise that they are stuck into a professional they don’t even like. Always choose a career path that you are passionate about because that way you will enjoy and earn at the same time and remember than your peace of mind is worth more than any amount of money.

7. Not ending relationships that you know are toxic for you

Whether it’s a friend or a life partner if the person is toxic for you and your life you should not even think twice before kicking them out of your life. There is nothing more important than your own peace of mind which toxic people will try to destroy every chance they get. You should know that such people won’t change just because you ask them to and you need to let go of them before it’s too late. Also do check out my post regarding the Top 5 reasons we don’t end a friendship that’s toxic for us

8. One sided love

One sided love is something that’s way too common nowadays than we think it is infact what I think is that there are more people who are in love with someone one sidedly than those who are getting love in return. I really don’t understand people pining over someone who isn’t interested in them. Don’t waste your time and trust me it’s not love you can’t be in love with someone you don’t know and you can’t know them unless you have been in a relationship with them. Also if they are not interested in you that clearly means they won’t ever fall in love with you so better move on than trying to force someone in being in love with you.

9. Complaining

This one I can speak from my personal experience since a couple years back I used to complain alot too but as I grew up I realised that it’s not worth it at all. If you think about it for a second no matter what it is you complaining about it won’t change anything infact it would make things worse since you would just be making yourself insufferable plus no body really cares so better have your tolerance level high .

10. Spending a fortune on marriages

I don’t get the mentality behind spending almost half of what you will ever earn in other words more than you can afford on a marriage and why just to show off? Trust me the people who love you won’t care whether you invite them to a five star reception or a normal one they would be there for you anyways and the ones who won’t come just because of that well those people should not matter to you anyways since they are not loyal to you just a bunch of materialistic ass holes. Another big reason you should not be spending a fortune on marriage is because I know two such people who did exactly the same and ended up getting divorced the next year you don’t want to end up like them crying over the money wasted on a wedding that didn’t even last .

So my list of the top 10 things that people do which are just not worth it comes to an end and I hope you guys enjoyed reading it if you did then do leave a big thumbs up and also share what you think is missing in my list in the comment section.

Pictures that speak louder than a thousand words

Hello everyone, Most of the pictures we come across daily have a cool caption to go along with or atleast a title to describe them but the pictures that I’m going to share with you guys today don’t need any of that. Every picture in this list speaks for itself and what’s even more interesting about them is the fact that they show us the reality of the world we live in today. It took me days to collect all of these from different parts of the internet just so I could share it with you guys so I really do hope that you like them.

P.S I don’t know about you guys but I got really emotional and sad when I looked at some of these pictures for the first time.

1. Perfect Disguise

Starting off with the first picture on my list which I’ve given the title perfect disguise. Both the title and the picture above gives out a huge hint to the message that’s hidden in this picture. It’s a disturbing reality of the world we live in today as you can see theres a girl who is trying to look happy and perfect in her Instagram feed but the real person that’s standing outside the picture is probably depressed and tired of trying to compete with everyone else like her and what’s even more sad is that it truly is how people are nowadays everyone is trying to compete with someone they think is somehow better than them and the real versions of these people are hidden deep inside them while the fake picture perfect ones are on display for the world to see.

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2. In a world full of men be a gentleman

This picture is pretty amazing since it is a perfect example of how all of us are equal and being the president of one of the most powerful countries in the world can not change a person’s personality and it is always how someone is brought up that makes the difference. Two presidents of the same country just different times and you can clearly see which one of them is the gentleman.

3. We only miss someone when they are gone

This picture gave me goosebumps just because how this is what really is happening in our world in the present era. I don’t know what’s wrong with us human beings we don’t value the people that really matter to us when they are right infront of us craving for our attention and as soon as we realise that they are no longer with us or we have lost them all of a sudden we start mourning their loss but then it’s too late and all we are left with are regrets so better treat your loved ones right and tell them how much they mean to you while you still can.

4. Your manners represent your brought up

I really don’t think it’s necessary for me to explain what’s wrong with this picture because it’s pretty obvious. Just to be clear I didn’t choose to post this picture because men are sitting while a woman is standing in public transportation but because three healthy grown ass men are sitting while a pregnant lady is standing I mean how could anyone be that heartless.

5. True love is rare but it does exist

This one literally brought tears to my eyes and also restored my faith in true love. I feel very sad for the poor wife and specially that baby who lost his father before even getting a chance to know him. I salut the patience and strength of this woman I can’t even imagine living a life without someone I loved and recently got married to. God bless her and the husband’s soul.

When youre in love with your best friend

Starting from the time when we are all just a bunch of small school going children till when we are full grown up adults we meet all kinds of different people. We even make a lot of friends along the way but with the pattern of time we learn that not everyone that claims to be our friend really is our friend. As we grow up many friends come and go but there’s this one true friend that has always been there for us right from the very beginning and either one of you could take a bullet or stand against the whole world for each other. That person is someone who has earned the right to be called our best friend, now some of us have a best friend of the same gender as us but most of the times they are of the opposite gender and usually they are the ones that prove to be better, more understanding and amazing friends. Imagine one day you find out that you have feelings for them and soon after that you realise you’re in love with your best friend. You keep your mouth shut since you don’t want to ruin your friendship.

Now this person who we call our best friend is the only person who has always been loyal to us and who we could depend on for anything. After all the years everything between you guys has been going pretty smoothly but then out of the blue there comes a day when they come up running to you and you could almost tell what they are going to say by the amount of excitement on their face. You’ve been feeling weird lately and even though you know they probably have some good news to share with you but you also have this unknown fear of something that you have not figured out yet. Your friend hugs you in excitement and like you expected they have some good news for you which for some odd reason you don’t have a good vibe about. Still you try your best to stay calm and listen to what they have to say and suddenly they tell you that they have found someone nice and have a date with them this weekend. You think that’s not a big deal and someday it was meant to happen and you tell them you’re happy for them even though it’s the opposite of that going on inside you. You take some time alone to think whatever that’s going on with you and what’s wrong all of a sudden. You think it must be something temporary like a phase of jealousy so you decide to give it some time but then you realise that you still feel exactly the same even after several days have passed . In that money you start thinking if you’re in love with your best friend and after alot of thinking you start accepting the fact that you really are in love with them and trust me guys if you are going through this it’s not something unusual infact it’s very common and happens alot .

What to do after confirming what you feel for them is real?

Now that you have made sure what you feel for them is real the first thing I suggest you should do is decide whether you should tell them everything that’s going on inside you or not? I personally think that if they are your best friend they would understand your feelings no matter how they feel ATM. Instead of being harsh on you they would explain their feelings to you very politely because we are all human beings and it’s not unusual or a very big deal if you fall for your best friend I mean who else would anyone want to be in love with other than someone who has always been there for you and also understands you better than anyone else

Let’s suppose if you tell them everything and be straight forward and honest with them what’s the best and the worst that could happen ? Well let me explain that to you starting with the first one which is also the best case scenario in this case

1) Best case scenario they also feel the same for you and you guys start dating and live happily ever after.

2) Second case scenario your best friend feels nothing like you do , gets confused in the heat of the moment which probably leads to you guys parting ways and a beautiful friendship coming to it’s end.

3) Third and last case scenario is they don’t feel the same way for you as you do for them . They politely listen to what you have to say but when you’re done they try to explain you that they don’t feel the same way but they also don’t want your friendship to end but after all that being back to normal gets kind of awkward.

After you’re done sharing your feelings with them next you should wait for their response or say on the matter. If they feel they way you do then I wish you a happy life together but what if they don’t feel the same way about you it’s simple you back off. What if they don’t feel the same way but still want to be friends well if that happens to me I would simply reject that offer because if I don’t it will be very harmful for my emotional well-being . I know you might think I’m being selfish but sometimes we all need to be like that for the sake of our own well crying. Also it would be very awkward for both of us or atleast for me and that way it would also be almost impossible for me to get them off my mind . If you keep on being friends and seeing each other regularly after knowing that they are not at all interested you would just be making things more difficult and complicated specially for your self. Trust me being friends and seeing someone you love make out with someone else is the worse feeling ever. So it’s better to go your own seperate ways and I’m sure they would understand where you’re coming from and would give you the space you need and deserve in order to get over that phase. I know it’s never easy but trust me it will pass . You just need to keep distance with them no matter what and ignore all the places where there is even the slightest chance of you crossing ways with them. Well this was everything I had to say on this matter and I hope it helps those of you going through this phase and for those of you who are not well it’s always good to be prepared for situations like these before hand because it’s not unusual that someday you find yourself in exactly the same situation. I wish you guys all the best for your future. Make the most out of it as long as you are here after all we all only live once.

Written by : Ahmed Shah

Top 5 WTF facts of all times

Hello everyone , As I wasn’t able to post all day today I decided to write about a topic that I’m pretty sure will entertain you guys . It’s basically about some really strange and fun facts that most of us know as or call WTF facts and you already know what that means so please don’t ask. (P.S All the facts mentioned in this list are totally legit)

1) Immortals among us

The first one on my list actually freaks me out since I never knew about it just until last year when I confirmed from numerous reliable sources that it was true for real. Would you guys believe of someone tells you that being immortal is not only a thing in the movies . Yes that’s true that humans are mortal but it doesn’t mean everything else is too infact there are two of them that we have known about all our lives but didn’t know about this mystery. I’m taking about the jelly fish and the lobster both these sea creatures never die ofcourse unless they are killed on purpose.


2) Incredible brain

This one is truly one of my all time favorites since it’s always interesting to find out such facts about your own mind. What’s even more amazing is that after reading this one you will realize that the the human brain does not recognize a second ‘the’.

3) 6 lives

Do you guys know that myth we used to hear back in childhood days that there is someone in another part of the world and they are fully identical to you. Honestly I thought it was just a joke and people taking advantage of us being kids but no it’s actually true but instead of just one there are six other people to be accurate in some part of the world who like exactly the same as we do and there is a 9 percent chance that you will alreast meet or cross paths with one of them in your whole lifetime.

Poor cat thought only they are allowed to have multiple lives 😛

4. The ring finger

How many of you guys know about the secret behind our ring finger. I’m going to share with those who don’t know and those who did do comment saying been there done that. Anyways the ring finger also the fourth finger of your left hand is where we usually put on the rings at the time of engagement with our loved ones but why is that we choose that specific finger out of all? It’s because that is the only finger that has a vein connecting to our heart. I thought this was more cute than wtf kind.

5. Glasses at a museum

We all know that no WTF facts list is complete without a funny one in it and I honestly live to make others happy so here it is. Two teenagers once decided to put a pair of glasses as a prank at the San Francisco art museum and silly people started admiring the glasses thinking it was modern art, pondered it’s meaning and even took pictures of it.

I hope that my top 5 WTF facts list was fun to read and if you liked it do leave a big thumbs up and follow my blog. Thanks for reading.

Lessons I learned in my 20’s which I wish I had known earlier

  • Hello everyone , for those of you who might not know well currently I’m in my twenties infact I just turned 25 last month. This post is about the lessons I learned after turning twenty in other words which I learned in the last five years of my life. I also wish I had known them earlier in life that way I could have saved myself alot of trouble . Anyways I have no regrets and I believe that everything happens for a reason , it’s still better late than never . Those who are young and reading this Im sure that you guys can benefit from these facts or lessons about our life so let’s start shall we?
  • 1. Life doesn’t wait for anyone, it goes on

    The first lesson on my list is that life doesn’t stop for anyone no matter how famous or rich they are there’s no way around life. You need to know that your problems are only your problems and other people might show sympathy or pretend like they can feel you and are upset for what you’re going through but that’s mostly just out of courtesy probably to get along with you and in reality no one really cares about what you are feeling and why , yes there might be some people and by some I mean the very few people that are really close to you and only they might genuinely care for you for example your blood relations . You also need to learn that there might be difficult times but always remember that life is like a coin and it also has two sides a good and a bad one. Learn to be strong in the bad phases of life and remind yourself that the world has no pity for you and that time doesn’t stop for anyone either keep up or get left behind

    2. Choose a profession that you are passionate about

    The second lesson on my list plays a major role in determining where you are going to stand financially in the years to come. We have been brain fed since we are little children in schools till the day we graduate from University to only focus on our grades and if someone doesn’t want to be a doctor or engineer our society starts considering them below average and even a no brainer. I don’t really get how is someone who is passionate about some other field of profession take for example media or journalism any less than a doctor or engineer ? This pressure is the reason many students are forced to commit suicide every year and it’s sad how in such modern times our thinking is the same as it was a couple hundred years ago. I believe that a person who is passionate about another profession can be more successful in that specific field compared to If they were to be a doctor or a scientist.

    We as a society need to do something about this thinking and move on from it so everyone can do whatever they love to do or have a passion for that way I can guarantee more examples of success than failures in the upcoming years

    3. It’s better to learn from other people’s mistake than your own

    There is this saying that I’ve heard multiple times from a number of people and I’m sure you might have heard it too coming from someone atleast once in your life it is that ‘we should learn from our mistakes and I used to believe in it myself and thought it was a wise advice for years . Now let me tell you something since the past couple of years I started feeling a bit mature and also started realising how this world really is a cruel place so I decided to myself that I will listen to what everyone has to say but will only do what my brain or inner instinct tells me to do. During this phase I also discovered that rather than learning from my own mistakes why not try avoiding them in the first place and learn from the mistakes of those who have been in the same place as I am today . You know this happens alot , sometimes we even know deep inside us that doing a certain thing would do us harm and doing something else would do us good but we just choose to completely ignore the facts like we are somehow going to dodge the bullet that many people before us couldn’t it’s just part of human nature to consider ourselves better than the ones who came and left before us . In other words everyone knows that smoking or substance abuse could kill them sooner or later but still no one really seems to care and just ignores it until something serious really does happen. How stupid can we be?

    I believe that rather than waiting to make the same mistake others made before us and learning from it after suffering from negative consequences why not take a look at some facts from the past and learn from the mistakes that were made by people before us so we can avoid repeating them that way we won’t have to experience the same consequences win win situation.

    4. It’s not truly necessary to go to the gym in order to stay fit

    We have been brain fed ever since we hit puberty that in order to stay fit and in shape we need to join the gym. I myself shared the same belief until I was tired of trying to lift weight. I was always inspired with Arnold and wanted to build some muscles but little did I know that the way I was trying to achieve that was simply unethical. Would you believe that I have tried to go to the gym 7 times every year once from the age of 13 till 18. The last and the seventh time I had promised myself if it doesn’t work this time I quit and will assume it’s just not my thing. Once again after going for a month barely five days a week I was done and couldn’t bare with the cramps and body aches. I had lost all hope but two years ago I was reading this article from someone who is really smart and fit too. I’m thankful to that person because of what I learned from him . It made so much sense when he said that the reason more than eighty percent of us fail starting off with hardcore exercises at the gym from the very beginning is because our muscles are weak at first. I realised he was right and I was skinny and no matter what I did I didn’t lose or gain weight. He also said that for the first month try only stretches and that’s what I did started off with full body stretches and today it’s a whole year I have muscles and am quite close to having a six pack . After a month of stretching the same gym exercises were like a walk in the park not a single cramp. I can’t believe that now I enjoy going to the gym what seemed like a punishment before . I hope you get my point since it’s an important lesson and mistake most people make.

    5. Stop expecting from others

    The last but surely not the least important lesson I learnt in my twenties is to never keep expectations from just anyone who pretends to be close to you. Do you know that almost every person has been decieved or hurt by someone they knew. What I’m trying to say here is that if we stop and think for a second someone who we don’t know or care for can not even hurt us. Only the people in our life and the ones we choose to trust and expect from can hurt us. We give the keys to them ourselves so please before trusting or expecting from someone be a hundred percent sure that they are worth it because they will either take advantage of you or play with your feelings and one day sooner or later leave you hurting.

    5 reasons why we don’t end a friendship that’s toxic for us

    The internet is full of articles and stories related to friendships and how friends are a blessing and that we all have that one best friend we can do anything for and how you you have always been there for each other but the one thing that annoys me is the fact that everyone just wants to share only the good parts and not the negative aspects of it which is mostly the reality of friendships nowadays but no we just want to portray everything as if it was all just rainbows and butterflies. Let’s get back to our topic for today which is why do we keep going back to a friend who hurts our feelings everytime and deep inside we know they are toxic for us and I’m sure most of us have been through or is going through this but we don’t want to accept it and here im going to share with you five reasons why we don’t put an end to such friendships that are toxic for us

    1.You probably keep thinking that things are going to be different next time

    The chances are that sometimes you might have a good time with that toxic friend and in that moment you enjoy his or her company so when they have a major blow up or they put you down suddenly you shake it off thinking that maybe next time will be different and there’s a reason behind the way they behaved like that but let me tell you the problem with toxic friends , you are unable to communicate reasonably with them. Whereas you’d probably tell a friend, “Hey, that hurt my feelings” and they would apologize and you’d both move on but you can’t do that in a toxic friendship because your friend just won’t hear it maybe because they are a bully or because they can’t listen to criticism or just because they can’t simply have a conversation that’s not about them. At times you might assume that if you don’t discuss the situation with your toxic friend they would feel sorry for acting badly and would want to do better but this thinking of yours is flawed because it’s based on what you would do and it won’t change the behavior of others .

    2. Maybe that toxic friend of yours wasn’t always like this

    Sometimes what stops you from putting an end to such a friendship is because maybe that friend of yours wasn’t always this way and somewhere in your mind you think that something changed them into a toxic person or maybe you did something wrong and that you deserve such a behavior well that is not at all true and what I think is that at the beginning of your friendship they were nice to you because they probably had a motive behind it and that is why they became friends with you at the first place im sure if you think about it you will notice what was it that they wanted from you at the first place and I’m sure that is what changed their behavior once you find out the real reason maybe then you can stop blaming yourself and end that toxic friendship.

    3. You keep thinking you can change them

    Another reason could be that maybe you see yourself as some kind of a friendship warrior and that you are here to make all friendships great but you’re forgetting something very important here which is that no matter what you do and how much you try to change someone it won’t work until and unless they themself also want the same and allowing their negative behavior will only make them think that maybe it’s okay to treat you in such a way. What you need to do here is to be honest with them and tell them kindly that you won’t tolerate bad treatment and if they continue behaving poorly try giving them examples of when they behave that way with you and if they still don’t stop then you’re done . Just to let you know toxic people are notoriously bad at listening and it’s hard to have a genuine conversation about their behavior because they just don’t want to hear it and until they’re ready to listen you can’t help as simple as that.

    4. You don’t have alot of friends and are afraid to let go

    Another reason could be that sometimes you have a hard time making friends so you hang on to the toxic ones because you think it’s better than being alone . I accept that it’s hard to be lonely but filling up your life with toxic people doesn’t make you feel less lonely because loneliness can only be remedied by deep, meaningful connections with real friends. When you have a friend that understands you I promise you’ll feel less lonely and will value good friendships much more. If you’re lonely just focus on meeting more people and make an effort to form a new friendship with the people you have fun with, who treat you well and who encourage you rather than tear you down.

    5. Something from your past makes you think that negative and toxic behaviors are acceptable

    The most common reason why most people don’t end a toxic friendship that because of their own personal background that edges them toward acceptance of bad behavior. Maybe you also think this is what friendship is all about but trust me there is a big difference between someone who is just having a bad day and someone who consistently does negative things. The difference is that a genuine friend will feel bad after they hurt you and offer an apology. They’ll mess up from time to time but their intention is not to hurt. If you find that you’re consistently allowing toxic behavior into your friendships or even that all your friends seem to be of this negative nature, seek out a professional who can talk to you about dealing with the perceptions you carry from your past so you can start from the beginning and make healthy relationships with genuine friends this time and trust me there’s nothing wrong in taking the help that you need and always remember that youre not alone in this. You only live once and everyone deserves to have genuine people in their life who really do care for them. I hope this helps good luck for the future.

    Top 5 saddest realities about life

    Hello everyone today I’m going to share with you some harsh realities about our life that almost everyone is aware of but still not many people want to talk about because we want to stay stress free and happy in the moment but the bitter truth is that life is not all about rainbows and butterflies infact its more like a coin one side of it are the good times and the other side are the bad times and futher in this post im going to share with you guys according to me the top five saddest realities of life 

    1. Starting with the first one which is that most people who will promise to stay in your life and wont leave your side through thick and thin will leave you over a ripple so dont keep expectations from everyone who claims to be sincere because that would just lead to you being hurt sooner or later and only a few very rare people who actually care for you will stand by you when the time comes usually your blood relations

    2. Another sad reality about life is that even though all of us were constantly told not to compete with other people and their lives and that’s also what we teach our kids that they should focus on their own lives and journey but the bitter truth is that life itself is a constant competition and practically everything you do will, at some point, be evaluated and will place you in a certain role in society and no matter how much you try to ignore competition it will always be there for example if there is a decent, high-paying job that is somewhat close to where you live also has a lot of benefits and fits very well with you as a person the chances are that someone else also wants that job just like that if there is a decent university that specializes in your field, has a low tuition, and is close to your home, that you want to attend the chances are someone else also wants the same position just like that if you love a person and they are charming sweet and overall perfect for you and even if you hook up with them successfully still there will always be that someone else wanting to steal them from you and I know it’s sad but also inevitable. 

    3. The third sad reality about life is that we almost always fall in love with someone who doesnt love us back and I have always found this to be weird just until last year when it happened to me the same thing I blamed other people for and used to think that it was their own mistake but little did I know that someone like me who had always made sensible life choices would also fall for someone who doesnt have the same feelings for me but atleast now I can share the reason why that happens to us well its because of human nature do you guys know that if you like someone and you ask them out on a date and they say yes the first time or you know that they are a easy catch for you this will automatically make you think that you are somehow superior to them and can get them anytime you want whats weird is that the same person if gives you a hard time or doesnt like you back at all in that case you would take it on your self esteem and as a challenge and that is what makes us fall in love with them I know its stupid but its true we fall in love with the people who hurt us and dont like us in return.

    4. The fourth one on my list and one of the worse realities about life is that no matter what everyone tells you but the fact is that even before we are even born mostly our whole life ahead and our fate is already determined by factors that are not even in our control like kind of person you grow up to be whether you end up rich or poor. These factors continually shape you as a person, making you choose the decisions that you do. The same action done by two different people will have different outcomes in other words life is not fair when your life is shit, you can’t ‘fix’ everything just like that in spite of having free will. If we were truly free we would have no suffering for example The short, ugly boy born to short, ugly parents will never make it as a model, while his good looking peers easily could if they wanted to.

    5. The last but not the least harsh reality on my list is that no matter what we tell ourselves about money being not important than relations and that not everyone is the same and some people dont care about the money and are not gold diggers well I personally think thats bullshit because sooner or later every person in this world gets greedy and values money and financial value more than their own family its not a secret to the world that the earning member of the house is considered much more valuable in the eyes of their family compared to others and if youre going through a bad phase and arent able to fulfill their financial needs whether its your parents or your spouse none of them would respect you

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