Difference between guys and girls in love

In modern day we all believe and fight for gender equality but that doesn’t mean that men and women are the same. I personally believe in both the genders having equal rights but still there will always be alot of differences between men and women. I’m not just talking about the very obvious biological differences . What I mean is that they are different from each other in almost every other way. Today I’m just going to put light on all the ways they differ from one another when in love for example how they behave , show their feelings etc

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Let’s start with guys first

1. He’s generous with his food

Everyone knows that guys love food and if you go out for lunch or dinner with a guy you better order something for yourself separately because guys hate sharing their food with others . What I’m trying to say is that if a guy gives you the last bite of his chocolate mousse cake or offers to switch something he ordered for himself with you just because you like what he got more that most certainly means that he loves and adores you which is why he is willing to give up his food for you.

2. He would stare at you alot

This is a common sign of attraction. If you find out that a guy is staring at you alot its most probably because he is in love with you and adores you alot. If he stares or looks in your eyes when you are having a conversation that means he is trying to engage in something called mutual gazing with you . You would also find them staring at you along with a smile on their face even when you are just doing something as random as tying your laces before a run.

3. He talks about getting married to you and introduces you to his family

Introducing someone with their family is definitely a huge deal when it comes to guys . If a guy really loves you he would make you meet his family without you even asking for it and would make you feel special infront of his loved ones. He would also talk about having a future with you and making you his wife more oftenly .

4. He would pamper himself with you

Would you normally see a guy waiting to wash the charchoal mask on his face ? The answer is no. In other words guys don’t like to pamper themselves but if a guy is in love with you and you ask him to be a part of your beauty routine he would gladly say yes even if that’s the last thing he wants to do . Guys in love would do anything to make their woman happy.

5. He would take a stand for you

Girls love it when their guy takes a stand for them and he would normally do something like that for you when he really loves you and feels the need to protect you. He won’t even bother asking you if you’re the one that’s wrong all he knows at that time is to protect you and take your side and a guy who loves you would be willing to stand against the whole world for you.

Moving on to girls

1. She would be willing to change herself for you

We all know that the most important thing to every girl out there is her style and she won’t change that for anyone but that is not true for a girl who is in love. A girl who loves you for real would be willing to change her hair cut, her dressing style, even her social circle and interests for you. Your opinion would matter the most to her even more then her own.

2. She won’t give importance to any other guy over you

This is my favorite quality that women have when they are in love. As soon as she falls in love with you all other men will suddenly become non existent for her. She would not even look at them when she is with you because as long as a woman is happy with the guy she loves she would only think about having a future with him and noone else.

3. She would allow you in her personal space

Anyone who knows even a little about psychology must be aware of the concept of personal space. It mostly means that she will let you use her personal things and this is the line beyond which a girl wouldn’t allow anyone to cross. If she lets you use her cell phone or even her social page it’s pretty obvious that she has feelings of love for you.

4. She would laugh at your jokes

If a girl is in love with you she would never do or say anything that even slightly upsets you. She would laugh at your lame jokes even when deep inside she knows it was horrible so you don’t have to deal with the embarrassment. Never leave a girl who laughs at your silly jokes even when everyone else is not even smiling . She won’t care if others think both of you are weird in fact she would be glad you don’t have to face it all alone.

Top 5 reasons why most relationships fail nowadays ?

Hello everyone, Do you know that more than 70 percent of new relationships fail in the very first year? Today we are going to share with you the top 5 reasons why most relationships fail. So before starting off with my just I want you to know why I chose to write about this certain topic. The first time I realized how important and serious this is was last month as I was waiting to board a flight back to Pakistan at the Heathrow airport after spending an amazing summer with my cousins who live in London.

Not just this vacation but in fact all the times I had traveled abroad and explored different parts of the world it taught me many different things each time . What I loved the most was differentiating all kinds of people, nationalities, religions and traditions and then comparing them with each other and even with myself to see what differences and similarities we all had with one another.

So coming to the part when I was waiting to board my flight back to Pakistan. While there was still time left I kept thinking to myself how every single one of us is different from each other and have our own different stories and experiences to share. While I was lost in my thoughts something that I had never given a second thought popped up in my head and left me in surprise. I’ve almost traveled more than half the world and have met thousands of people with different personalities, identities and what not but I had never thought about this one thing that all of them and everyone I knew had in common and I’m sure most of you guys and everyone you know also has gone through it at some point in life. Yes I’m talking about getting our hearts broken that is something almost everyone over the age of hitting puberty has witnessed. In almost all the stories I’ve heard from people there’s a bad and a good partner in them even worse in some cases both the partners are confident that they were not the reason of the break up. I think either they are pretending to cover up their fuck ups or maybe they just really don’t know what they did was unacceptable and caused them to part ways. Do you know that 70 percent of all relationships end in the first year of dating and that’s the saddest thing I’ve found out lately. This is the reason I wanted to write about this topic so I could raise awareness of this issue even if that means in just a few people I would still be glad to do so . Now that you know why I chose to write about this let’s start with mentioning the top five most common reasons that cause most relationships to fail.

1- Understanding

The first reason on my list is also a very common reason behind a majority of relationships not being able to work out. Both men and women have this problem of understanding the needs of one another . Firstly they need to accept that no matter what they do there are always going to be gender differences and to have a healthy relationship they will have to understand the needs of their partner. Some of the most common things that both the genders fail to understand are

 

  • Men need sex to feel loved and women need to feel loved to have sex
  • Men need to play well to feel good in sports and women need to feel good to play well
  • Men need to feel respected and appreciated with words or gestures. Women need your actions to be backed up with word 

2– Love is blind

Some scientists at the University College London have shown us that love indeed is blind. They found out that feelings of love lead to a suppression of activity in the areas of the brain controlling critical thought . In other words once we feel close to a person, our brain decides that it’s not necessary to assess their character or personality too deeply and that is why most couples are all lovey dovey at the start of the relationship. The problem here is that this phase doesn’t last forever and after a couple of months or a year max the new relationship euphoria begins to wear off and the reality starts setting in and both the partners start seeing each other as they really are . Now if both of them had been honest with each other from the start or have not made a false first impression of themselves then they don’t have to worry about anything but that’s not the case most of the time and this becomes a major reason why many relationships fail.

3- Trust

  • Another very common reason why most relationships fail is the lack or loss of trust. It is one of the most harmful contagions to a couple’s long-term success and without trust, a relationship misses two of the key factors to a strong bond , safety and security. Trust issues could arise due to a number of reasons that may include jealousy, possessiveness, unreasonable rigidity, emotional infidelity, physical/sexual infidelity, relational game playing or lack of reliability. Most of the time the reason behind trust issues is not even true and something we have assumed ourself. I believe that’s someone who is having trust issues should honestly consider whether the lack of trust is based on tangible substance or unjustified fears.
  • 4- Lack of communication

  • Lack of communication in couples is considered to be one of the top reasons behind breakups and even divorce. The situation gets worse when one or both partners show contempt in the relationship Contempt is the opposite of respect and is often expressed via negative judgment, criticism, or sarcasm regarding the worth of an individual. The best solution to that is to talk to your partner and clear any mis understanding there is between you guys because not communicating with each other could make the situation worse and even lead to an end of the relationship.

  • 5- Immaturity and lack of commitment

The last but definitely not the least reason why most relationships fail is because either one or even both the partners are still immature. The best example of this are teenage relationships. Almost all teenage relationships fail because most of the high school going kids are in it for the fun specially the boys. They are the kind of people who are in it just for the relationship and not the person they are with in that relationship. These kind of relationship are bad for the person who actually is in love and really does care about their partner but little do they know that there is no future for them with that immature and selfish person.

 

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