5 signs that your guy is just playing around with you

Hello everyone , Today I’m writing this one for all the girls out there. I’m a guy which is why I know how most guys are. I’m not saying there are no good guys left in this world because that is a lie. There also no denying the fact that nowadays girls are much more loyal and sincere than guys. Well don’t worry because I know exactly how play boys act around the girl they are playing around with. I’m sharing this with you because I believe that every woman should be treated with the respect she deserves. So today I bring you the top five signs that your guy is not serious about you and if I help and save even one girl from getting hurt badly in the future I will believe that I accomplished my goal.

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Top 5 signs that your guy is not serious about you
1. If he hates the idea of taking it slow

The first and a very obvious sign that he’s a play boy is that he wouldn’t like the idea of taking things slow and by things I mean the relationship . A guy who genuinely loves you would not care about such petty things and would worry about the bigger picture. In other words even if you tell him you don’t want to kiss him until marriage trust me he would be happy to respect whatever your opinion is. Someone who gets mad at you for not letting him kiss you or sleep with you is a guaranteed asshole. Now you know what to do when you see this red flag or sign in the future.

2. If he doesn’t want to introduce you to his family and friends

This is another serious red flag and sign you want to look for in your guy in order to get an idea of him. Guys who are not planning to have a future with you would obviously not want you to meet his parents and even his close friends . You might be wondering why is that well it’s because most of their parents are not aware of the evil a**holes they are. They won’t want to ruin their fake image introducing someone they don’t even plan to marry I hope you got my point.

3. If he is always on the phone even when he’s supposed to give time to you

A guy who likes to play with your feelings would do anything to keep you from finding out about his real intentions. If your guy is very protective about his phone and doesn’t let you hold it even if you want to make an important call that means he has something to hide. Along with that if he’s always talking to someone on call and when you ask him he comes up with different excuses every time then you need to be careful. I’m sure he would do his best to keep his phone with him at all times but you have to find a reason to get your hands on it somehow. Only then you would be sure and have something to make him confess to what he’s been doing. Try to stay away from such guys whenever you come across them so they don’t get a chance to lure you in a relationship with them.

4. He doesn’t get jealous or even seem to care if you go out with a guy friend

I know it’s important to trust your partner if you want a healthy relationship. Listen up its not that we don’t trust you when you go out for shopping or dinner with your guy best friend . If a guy is jealous of you going out with a guy friend it’s not because he’s over protective but that he loves you alot. He just doesn’t trust that guy you’re going with. To be honest he can’t even stand the thought of the love of his life out with someone else. So if your guy doesn’t care at all about you going out with your guy friends it’s because he doesn’t care and is not serious about you.

5. If you catch him staring at other girls very often even when you’re around

A guy who is serious about you and having a future with you will be lost in your love and to him no one else would mean more than you . Someone who checks out other women when you are with him clearly shows that he has no respect for you. He will leave you for another woman the first chance they get . I would say you recognise his intentions and get done with the likes of him ASAP before he gets a chance to hurt you .

If you liked this post then do check out another amazing post regarding the differences between a man and woman in love http://www.thedailylearners.com/difference-between-a-man-and-a-woman-in-love/

Top 10 things that people do which are just not worth it

Hello everyone , I know that I haven’t been able to post anything for a whole week due to some personal reasons but good news is that I’m back with a very interesting article for you guys and I hope that you like it.

We are all human beings and none of us is perfect, what I’m trying to say here is that at the end of the day we all make honest mistakes but there’s a hell lot of difference between making a genuine mistake and doing something stupid or highly in-appropriate on purpose. What makes me sad is the fact that most of the people who chose to do such things are aware of the fact that it’s just not going to be worth it but they still choose to do it anyways. Today I bring you my list of the top 10 things that people do which are just not worth it and just so you know this list is strictly only based on my opinion so let’s start off with it shall we?

1. Arguing with a fool

The first thing that’s just not worth it on my list is arguing with a stupid person. Trust me guys this one I am speaking from my own experience and no matter what you say to them or how right you are they won’t even bother understanding your point it’s exactly like pissing into a fan.

2. Having regrets

A majority of people struggle with having regrets from the past and it’s also one of the biggest causes of stress. Life is too short for this bullshit and we all only live once so learn to accept your mistake, apologise and move forward.

3. Getting a divorce

I’ve personally witnessed many lives that are destroyed because of divorce. I’m not saying that you should stay in a toxic relationship all I’m trying to say here is that try to choose wisely at first so you don’t have to deal with it later on because then in most cases is too late and lives are destroyed specially the children that you have by then are the ones who are mostly affected by it.

4. Impressing others

Did you know that most of the people buy fancy things they can’t even afford just to impress the people who don’t even care. Don’t waste all that hard earned money over useless things and it’s much better to build wealth than just a temporary image.

5. Fighting with your loved ones

I’m not saying that it’s wrong to disagree with someone infact do it if you think you should and even argue with them when you think they are wrong or bring unreasonable but atleast learn to fight fair with them. Attack the problem and not each other so your love and relationship with them grows even more stronger.

6. Choosing a career just for the money

This one is a major problem with humans and a mistake that many people make until later on when they realise that they are stuck into a professional they don’t even like. Always choose a career path that you are passionate about because that way you will enjoy and earn at the same time and remember than your peace of mind is worth more than any amount of money.

7. Not ending relationships that you know are toxic for you

Whether it’s a friend or a life partner if the person is toxic for you and your life you should not even think twice before kicking them out of your life. There is nothing more important than your own peace of mind which toxic people will try to destroy every chance they get. You should know that such people won’t change just because you ask them to and you need to let go of them before it’s too late. Also do check out my post regarding the Top 5 reasons we don’t end a friendship that’s toxic for us

8. One sided love

One sided love is something that’s way too common nowadays than we think it is infact what I think is that there are more people who are in love with someone one sidedly than those who are getting love in return. I really don’t understand people pining over someone who isn’t interested in them. Don’t waste your time and trust me it’s not love you can’t be in love with someone you don’t know and you can’t know them unless you have been in a relationship with them. Also if they are not interested in you that clearly means they won’t ever fall in love with you so better move on than trying to force someone in being in love with you.

9. Complaining

This one I can speak from my personal experience since a couple years back I used to complain alot too but as I grew up I realised that it’s not worth it at all. If you think about it for a second no matter what it is you complaining about it won’t change anything infact it would make things worse since you would just be making yourself insufferable plus no body really cares so better have your tolerance level high .

10. Spending a fortune on marriages

I don’t get the mentality behind spending almost half of what you will ever earn in other words more than you can afford on a marriage and why just to show off? Trust me the people who love you won’t care whether you invite them to a five star reception or a normal one they would be there for you anyways and the ones who won’t come just because of that well those people should not matter to you anyways since they are not loyal to you just a bunch of materialistic ass holes. Another big reason you should not be spending a fortune on marriage is because I know two such people who did exactly the same and ended up getting divorced the next year you don’t want to end up like them crying over the money wasted on a wedding that didn’t even last .

So my list of the top 10 things that people do which are just not worth it comes to an end and I hope you guys enjoyed reading it if you did then do leave a big thumbs up and also share what you think is missing in my list in the comment section.

Pictures that speak louder than a thousand words

Hello everyone, Most of the pictures we come across daily have a cool caption to go along with or atleast a title to describe them but the pictures that I’m going to share with you guys today don’t need any of that. Every picture in this list speaks for itself and what’s even more interesting about them is the fact that they show us the reality of the world we live in today. It took me days to collect all of these from different parts of the internet just so I could share it with you guys so I really do hope that you like them.

P.S I don’t know about you guys but I got really emotional and sad when I looked at some of these pictures for the first time.

1. Perfect Disguise

Starting off with the first picture on my list which I’ve given the title perfect disguise. Both the title and the picture above gives out a huge hint to the message that’s hidden in this picture. It’s a disturbing reality of the world we live in today as you can see theres a girl who is trying to look happy and perfect in her Instagram feed but the real person that’s standing outside the picture is probably depressed and tired of trying to compete with everyone else like her and what’s even more sad is that it truly is how people are nowadays everyone is trying to compete with someone they think is somehow better than them and the real versions of these people are hidden deep inside them while the fake picture perfect ones are on display for the world to see.

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2. In a world full of men be a gentleman

This picture is pretty amazing since it is a perfect example of how all of us are equal and being the president of one of the most powerful countries in the world can not change a person’s personality and it is always how someone is brought up that makes the difference. Two presidents of the same country just different times and you can clearly see which one of them is the gentleman.

3. We only miss someone when they are gone

This picture gave me goosebumps just because how this is what really is happening in our world in the present era. I don’t know what’s wrong with us human beings we don’t value the people that really matter to us when they are right infront of us craving for our attention and as soon as we realise that they are no longer with us or we have lost them all of a sudden we start mourning their loss but then it’s too late and all we are left with are regrets so better treat your loved ones right and tell them how much they mean to you while you still can.

4. Your manners represent your brought up

I really don’t think it’s necessary for me to explain what’s wrong with this picture because it’s pretty obvious. Just to be clear I didn’t choose to post this picture because men are sitting while a woman is standing in public transportation but because three healthy grown ass men are sitting while a pregnant lady is standing I mean how could anyone be that heartless.

5. True love is rare but it does exist

This one literally brought tears to my eyes and also restored my faith in true love. I feel very sad for the poor wife and specially that baby who lost his father before even getting a chance to know him. I salut the patience and strength of this woman I can’t even imagine living a life without someone I loved and recently got married to. God bless her and the husband’s soul.

Difference between guys and girls in love

In modern day we all believe and fight for gender equality but that doesn’t mean that men and women are the same. I personally believe in both the genders having equal rights but still there will always be alot of differences between men and women. I’m not just talking about the very obvious biological differences . What I mean is that they are different from each other in almost every other way. Today I’m just going to put light on all the ways they differ from one another when in love for example how they behave , show their feelings etc

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Let’s start with guys first

1. He’s generous with his food

Everyone knows that guys love food and if you go out for lunch or dinner with a guy you better order something for yourself separately because guys hate sharing their food with others . What I’m trying to say is that if a guy gives you the last bite of his chocolate mousse cake or offers to switch something he ordered for himself with you just because you like what he got more that most certainly means that he loves and adores you which is why he is willing to give up his food for you.

2. He would stare at you alot

This is a common sign of attraction. If you find out that a guy is staring at you alot its most probably because he is in love with you and adores you alot. If he stares or looks in your eyes when you are having a conversation that means he is trying to engage in something called mutual gazing with you . You would also find them staring at you along with a smile on their face even when you are just doing something as random as tying your laces before a run.

3. He talks about getting married to you and introduces you to his family

Introducing someone with their family is definitely a huge deal when it comes to guys . If a guy really loves you he would make you meet his family without you even asking for it and would make you feel special infront of his loved ones. He would also talk about having a future with you and making you his wife more oftenly .

4. He would pamper himself with you

Would you normally see a guy waiting to wash the charchoal mask on his face ? The answer is no. In other words guys don’t like to pamper themselves but if a guy is in love with you and you ask him to be a part of your beauty routine he would gladly say yes even if that’s the last thing he wants to do . Guys in love would do anything to make their woman happy.

5. He would take a stand for you

Girls love it when their guy takes a stand for them and he would normally do something like that for you when he really loves you and feels the need to protect you. He won’t even bother asking you if you’re the one that’s wrong all he knows at that time is to protect you and take your side and a guy who loves you would be willing to stand against the whole world for you.

Moving on to girls

1. She would be willing to change herself for you

We all know that the most important thing to every girl out there is her style and she won’t change that for anyone but that is not true for a girl who is in love. A girl who loves you for real would be willing to change her hair cut, her dressing style, even her social circle and interests for you. Your opinion would matter the most to her even more then her own.

2. She won’t give importance to any other guy over you

This is my favorite quality that women have when they are in love. As soon as she falls in love with you all other men will suddenly become non existent for her. She would not even look at them when she is with you because as long as a woman is happy with the guy she loves she would only think about having a future with him and noone else.

3. She would allow you in her personal space

Anyone who knows even a little about psychology must be aware of the concept of personal space. It mostly means that she will let you use her personal things and this is the line beyond which a girl wouldn’t allow anyone to cross. If she lets you use her cell phone or even her social page it’s pretty obvious that she has feelings of love for you.

4. She would laugh at your jokes

If a girl is in love with you she would never do or say anything that even slightly upsets you. She would laugh at your lame jokes even when deep inside she knows it was horrible so you don’t have to deal with the embarrassment. Never leave a girl who laughs at your silly jokes even when everyone else is not even smiling . She won’t care if others think both of you are weird in fact she would be glad you don’t have to face it all alone.

Top 5 reasons why most relationships fail nowadays ?

Hello everyone, Do you know that more than 70 percent of new relationships fail in the very first year? Today we are going to share with you the top 5 reasons why most relationships fail. So before starting off with my just I want you to know why I chose to write about this certain topic. The first time I realized how important and serious this is was last month as I was waiting to board a flight back to Pakistan at the Heathrow airport after spending an amazing summer with my cousins who live in London.

Not just this vacation but in fact all the times I had traveled abroad and explored different parts of the world it taught me many different things each time . What I loved the most was differentiating all kinds of people, nationalities, religions and traditions and then comparing them with each other and even with myself to see what differences and similarities we all had with one another.

So coming to the part when I was waiting to board my flight back to Pakistan. While there was still time left I kept thinking to myself how every single one of us is different from each other and have our own different stories and experiences to share. While I was lost in my thoughts something that I had never given a second thought popped up in my head and left me in surprise. I’ve almost traveled more than half the world and have met thousands of people with different personalities, identities and what not but I had never thought about this one thing that all of them and everyone I knew had in common and I’m sure most of you guys and everyone you know also has gone through it at some point in life. Yes I’m talking about getting our hearts broken that is something almost everyone over the age of hitting puberty has witnessed. In almost all the stories I’ve heard from people there’s a bad and a good partner in them even worse in some cases both the partners are confident that they were not the reason of the break up. I think either they are pretending to cover up their fuck ups or maybe they just really don’t know what they did was unacceptable and caused them to part ways. Do you know that 70 percent of all relationships end in the first year of dating and that’s the saddest thing I’ve found out lately. This is the reason I wanted to write about this topic so I could raise awareness of this issue even if that means in just a few people I would still be glad to do so . Now that you know why I chose to write about this let’s start with mentioning the top five most common reasons that cause most relationships to fail.

1- Understanding

The first reason on my list is also a very common reason behind a majority of relationships not being able to work out. Both men and women have this problem of understanding the needs of one another . Firstly they need to accept that no matter what they do there are always going to be gender differences and to have a healthy relationship they will have to understand the needs of their partner. Some of the most common things that both the genders fail to understand are

 

  • Men need sex to feel loved and women need to feel loved to have sex
  • Men need to play well to feel good in sports and women need to feel good to play well
  • Men need to feel respected and appreciated with words or gestures. Women need your actions to be backed up with word 

2– Love is blind

Some scientists at the University College London have shown us that love indeed is blind. They found out that feelings of love lead to a suppression of activity in the areas of the brain controlling critical thought . In other words once we feel close to a person, our brain decides that it’s not necessary to assess their character or personality too deeply and that is why most couples are all lovey dovey at the start of the relationship. The problem here is that this phase doesn’t last forever and after a couple of months or a year max the new relationship euphoria begins to wear off and the reality starts setting in and both the partners start seeing each other as they really are . Now if both of them had been honest with each other from the start or have not made a false first impression of themselves then they don’t have to worry about anything but that’s not the case most of the time and this becomes a major reason why many relationships fail.

3- Trust

  • Another very common reason why most relationships fail is the lack or loss of trust. It is one of the most harmful contagions to a couple’s long-term success and without trust, a relationship misses two of the key factors to a strong bond , safety and security. Trust issues could arise due to a number of reasons that may include jealousy, possessiveness, unreasonable rigidity, emotional infidelity, physical/sexual infidelity, relational game playing or lack of reliability. Most of the time the reason behind trust issues is not even true and something we have assumed ourself. I believe that’s someone who is having trust issues should honestly consider whether the lack of trust is based on tangible substance or unjustified fears.
  • 4- Lack of communication

  • Lack of communication in couples is considered to be one of the top reasons behind breakups and even divorce. The situation gets worse when one or both partners show contempt in the relationship Contempt is the opposite of respect and is often expressed via negative judgment, criticism, or sarcasm regarding the worth of an individual. The best solution to that is to talk to your partner and clear any mis understanding there is between you guys because not communicating with each other could make the situation worse and even lead to an end of the relationship.

  • 5- Immaturity and lack of commitment

The last but definitely not the least reason why most relationships fail is because either one or even both the partners are still immature. The best example of this are teenage relationships. Almost all teenage relationships fail because most of the high school going kids are in it for the fun specially the boys. They are the kind of people who are in it just for the relationship and not the person they are with in that relationship. These kind of relationship are bad for the person who actually is in love and really does care about their partner but little do they know that there is no future for them with that immature and selfish person.

 

Lessons I learned in my 20’s which I wish I had known earlier

  • Hello everyone , for those of you who might not know well currently I’m in my twenties infact I just turned 25 last month. This post is about the lessons I learned after turning twenty in other words which I learned in the last five years of my life. I also wish I had known them earlier in life that way I could have saved myself alot of trouble . Anyways I have no regrets and I believe that everything happens for a reason , it’s still better late than never . Those who are young and reading this Im sure that you guys can benefit from these facts or lessons about our life so let’s start shall we?
  • 1. Life doesn’t wait for anyone, it goes on

    The first lesson on my list is that life doesn’t stop for anyone no matter how famous or rich they are there’s no way around life. You need to know that your problems are only your problems and other people might show sympathy or pretend like they can feel you and are upset for what you’re going through but that’s mostly just out of courtesy probably to get along with you and in reality no one really cares about what you are feeling and why , yes there might be some people and by some I mean the very few people that are really close to you and only they might genuinely care for you for example your blood relations . You also need to learn that there might be difficult times but always remember that life is like a coin and it also has two sides a good and a bad one. Learn to be strong in the bad phases of life and remind yourself that the world has no pity for you and that time doesn’t stop for anyone either keep up or get left behind

    2. Choose a profession that you are passionate about

    The second lesson on my list plays a major role in determining where you are going to stand financially in the years to come. We have been brain fed since we are little children in schools till the day we graduate from University to only focus on our grades and if someone doesn’t want to be a doctor or engineer our society starts considering them below average and even a no brainer. I don’t really get how is someone who is passionate about some other field of profession take for example media or journalism any less than a doctor or engineer ? This pressure is the reason many students are forced to commit suicide every year and it’s sad how in such modern times our thinking is the same as it was a couple hundred years ago. I believe that a person who is passionate about another profession can be more successful in that specific field compared to If they were to be a doctor or a scientist.

    We as a society need to do something about this thinking and move on from it so everyone can do whatever they love to do or have a passion for that way I can guarantee more examples of success than failures in the upcoming years

    3. It’s better to learn from other people’s mistake than your own

    There is this saying that I’ve heard multiple times from a number of people and I’m sure you might have heard it too coming from someone atleast once in your life it is that ‘we should learn from our mistakes and I used to believe in it myself and thought it was a wise advice for years . Now let me tell you something since the past couple of years I started feeling a bit mature and also started realising how this world really is a cruel place so I decided to myself that I will listen to what everyone has to say but will only do what my brain or inner instinct tells me to do. During this phase I also discovered that rather than learning from my own mistakes why not try avoiding them in the first place and learn from the mistakes of those who have been in the same place as I am today . You know this happens alot , sometimes we even know deep inside us that doing a certain thing would do us harm and doing something else would do us good but we just choose to completely ignore the facts like we are somehow going to dodge the bullet that many people before us couldn’t it’s just part of human nature to consider ourselves better than the ones who came and left before us . In other words everyone knows that smoking or substance abuse could kill them sooner or later but still no one really seems to care and just ignores it until something serious really does happen. How stupid can we be?

    I believe that rather than waiting to make the same mistake others made before us and learning from it after suffering from negative consequences why not take a look at some facts from the past and learn from the mistakes that were made by people before us so we can avoid repeating them that way we won’t have to experience the same consequences win win situation.

    4. It’s not truly necessary to go to the gym in order to stay fit

    We have been brain fed ever since we hit puberty that in order to stay fit and in shape we need to join the gym. I myself shared the same belief until I was tired of trying to lift weight. I was always inspired with Arnold and wanted to build some muscles but little did I know that the way I was trying to achieve that was simply unethical. Would you believe that I have tried to go to the gym 7 times every year once from the age of 13 till 18. The last and the seventh time I had promised myself if it doesn’t work this time I quit and will assume it’s just not my thing. Once again after going for a month barely five days a week I was done and couldn’t bare with the cramps and body aches. I had lost all hope but two years ago I was reading this article from someone who is really smart and fit too. I’m thankful to that person because of what I learned from him . It made so much sense when he said that the reason more than eighty percent of us fail starting off with hardcore exercises at the gym from the very beginning is because our muscles are weak at first. I realised he was right and I was skinny and no matter what I did I didn’t lose or gain weight. He also said that for the first month try only stretches and that’s what I did started off with full body stretches and today it’s a whole year I have muscles and am quite close to having a six pack . After a month of stretching the same gym exercises were like a walk in the park not a single cramp. I can’t believe that now I enjoy going to the gym what seemed like a punishment before . I hope you get my point since it’s an important lesson and mistake most people make.

    5. Stop expecting from others

    The last but surely not the least important lesson I learnt in my twenties is to never keep expectations from just anyone who pretends to be close to you. Do you know that almost every person has been decieved or hurt by someone they knew. What I’m trying to say here is that if we stop and think for a second someone who we don’t know or care for can not even hurt us. Only the people in our life and the ones we choose to trust and expect from can hurt us. We give the keys to them ourselves so please before trusting or expecting from someone be a hundred percent sure that they are worth it because they will either take advantage of you or play with your feelings and one day sooner or later leave you hurting.

    5 reasons why we don’t end a friendship that’s toxic for us

    The internet is full of articles and stories related to friendships and how friends are a blessing and that we all have that one best friend we can do anything for and how you you have always been there for each other but the one thing that annoys me is the fact that everyone just wants to share only the good parts and not the negative aspects of it which is mostly the reality of friendships nowadays but no we just want to portray everything as if it was all just rainbows and butterflies. Let’s get back to our topic for today which is why do we keep going back to a friend who hurts our feelings everytime and deep inside we know they are toxic for us and I’m sure most of us have been through or is going through this but we don’t want to accept it and here im going to share with you five reasons why we don’t put an end to such friendships that are toxic for us

    1.You probably keep thinking that things are going to be different next time

    The chances are that sometimes you might have a good time with that toxic friend and in that moment you enjoy his or her company so when they have a major blow up or they put you down suddenly you shake it off thinking that maybe next time will be different and there’s a reason behind the way they behaved like that but let me tell you the problem with toxic friends , you are unable to communicate reasonably with them. Whereas you’d probably tell a friend, “Hey, that hurt my feelings” and they would apologize and you’d both move on but you can’t do that in a toxic friendship because your friend just won’t hear it maybe because they are a bully or because they can’t listen to criticism or just because they can’t simply have a conversation that’s not about them. At times you might assume that if you don’t discuss the situation with your toxic friend they would feel sorry for acting badly and would want to do better but this thinking of yours is flawed because it’s based on what you would do and it won’t change the behavior of others .

    2. Maybe that toxic friend of yours wasn’t always like this

    Sometimes what stops you from putting an end to such a friendship is because maybe that friend of yours wasn’t always this way and somewhere in your mind you think that something changed them into a toxic person or maybe you did something wrong and that you deserve such a behavior well that is not at all true and what I think is that at the beginning of your friendship they were nice to you because they probably had a motive behind it and that is why they became friends with you at the first place im sure if you think about it you will notice what was it that they wanted from you at the first place and I’m sure that is what changed their behavior once you find out the real reason maybe then you can stop blaming yourself and end that toxic friendship.

    3. You keep thinking you can change them

    Another reason could be that maybe you see yourself as some kind of a friendship warrior and that you are here to make all friendships great but you’re forgetting something very important here which is that no matter what you do and how much you try to change someone it won’t work until and unless they themself also want the same and allowing their negative behavior will only make them think that maybe it’s okay to treat you in such a way. What you need to do here is to be honest with them and tell them kindly that you won’t tolerate bad treatment and if they continue behaving poorly try giving them examples of when they behave that way with you and if they still don’t stop then you’re done . Just to let you know toxic people are notoriously bad at listening and it’s hard to have a genuine conversation about their behavior because they just don’t want to hear it and until they’re ready to listen you can’t help as simple as that.

    4. You don’t have alot of friends and are afraid to let go

    Another reason could be that sometimes you have a hard time making friends so you hang on to the toxic ones because you think it’s better than being alone . I accept that it’s hard to be lonely but filling up your life with toxic people doesn’t make you feel less lonely because loneliness can only be remedied by deep, meaningful connections with real friends. When you have a friend that understands you I promise you’ll feel less lonely and will value good friendships much more. If you’re lonely just focus on meeting more people and make an effort to form a new friendship with the people you have fun with, who treat you well and who encourage you rather than tear you down.

    5. Something from your past makes you think that negative and toxic behaviors are acceptable

    The most common reason why most people don’t end a toxic friendship that because of their own personal background that edges them toward acceptance of bad behavior. Maybe you also think this is what friendship is all about but trust me there is a big difference between someone who is just having a bad day and someone who consistently does negative things. The difference is that a genuine friend will feel bad after they hurt you and offer an apology. They’ll mess up from time to time but their intention is not to hurt. If you find that you’re consistently allowing toxic behavior into your friendships or even that all your friends seem to be of this negative nature, seek out a professional who can talk to you about dealing with the perceptions you carry from your past so you can start from the beginning and make healthy relationships with genuine friends this time and trust me there’s nothing wrong in taking the help that you need and always remember that youre not alone in this. You only live once and everyone deserves to have genuine people in their life who really do care for them. I hope this helps good luck for the future.

    Top 5 useful psychology hacks that everyone must know about

    Psychological traits

    Hello everyone Im very excited today to be able to share these psychology tricks with you and the reason behind my excitement is that I’ve always loved psychology and it’s always great to find out some cool and important traits of the human mind and how it responds to certain situations. It’s amazing how every single human being in this world is different from one another and every now and then psychologists discover new behavioral patterns that are believed to be rooted in our childhood and can be applied to everyone and I hope these tricks are of help to you guys and make your life easier so let’s start with the first one on my list

    Couple psychology

    1. Do they like me?

    This trick is going to be useful for those of you who are not sure if someone you know likes you or not they could be a school or class fellow or maybe someone from your dance class or infact anyone from your life. Okay what you need to do is pretty simple just ask them for a small favor like if it’s your class fellow simply ask them if you could borrow a pen or pencil and the chances are that if they like you they will definitely let you borrow their pen or would do whatever favour you might have asked them to do and on the other hand if they don’t like you they won’t be willing to help you out either way you would know what you were looking for.

    2. First impression is the last impression

    I’m sure that at some point in life all of us have been in this position where we really like or are in love with someone but we can’t think of something to make that person like us back well if you’re in that situation and reading this you’re in luck since I’m going to tell you exactly what to do . Ask them out on a date and on your first date take them for a roller coaster ride in some amusement park or for a horror movie and this would most probably spike their adrenaline, and trick them into thinking they enjoy spending time with you but in reality it was probably the adrenaline high from the activity .

    3. The bigger favour

    There are times when we really need something from someone but we know there’s a chance that they might say no well this trick is going to help you in such a situation , what you need to do is ask that person for an even bigger favour than you were about to ask in the first place and when they say no then ask them for whatever you needed in the first place and chances are they would feel guilty of already saying no to the last favour you asked and say yes to this one for example if you need to borrow 50 dollars from someone ask them for a 100 first and when they say no then ask for 50 and they would most probably give you the 50.

    4. You’re not welcome

    The fourth trick on my list is very interesting and has proved to be really beneficial in many situations it’s that whenever you approach a group of people talking to each other pay close attention to their feet and if they turn their feet towards you it means that you are welcome to join the conversation with them and if they only turn their bodies or heads towards you it means they are not happy with you joining them.

    5. The choice trick

    The last trick on my list is going to be alot more beneficial for those people who have a hard time making their kids listen to them so the next time you want your kids to do something rather than giving them a command give them a choice for example if you want your toddler to drink their milk just simply ask them whether they want to drink milk in a feeder or a mug this would give them a sense of control over the situation and a higher chance of them listening to you.

    Top 5 lifestyle changes that will help you live longer

    Hello everyone today I’m going to share with you some very important lifestyle changes. If you make these changes you will definitely get healthier and will also improve your overall life. I know that because Ive tried this method myself and am speaking from my personal experience. Soon after you adjust these lifestyle habits in your daily routine you will start seeing the benefits.

    Healthy diet

    1. Healthy eating habits

    Starting with the first thing we need to focus on changing is our eating habits and the problem with this one is that most of us don’t even realise what we are doing wrong and that’s not entirely our fault because most of the modern food chains or companies are deceiving us by portraying unhealthy food as healthy and we need to be more aware of what we are eating and how it is affecting us and I’m not asking you to count every calorie or stop eating a certain food type what I’m suggesting is to keep the quality in mind and try to eat more of what is healthy for you and nourishing for your body . Another thing I want you to know is that it’s never too late even if you have gained some wait. You can easily lose all the extra weight by going on a keto diet which is one of the most famous and successful ways to lose weight. If you are wondering where you can get it from well don’t worry here’s the link to the ‘ Best kito diet plan ever.

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    2. Exercise

    The second change which can have a huge positive impact on our life is to start exercising regularly and let me tell you something that most people do they relate exercise with going to the gym and when they are not able to cope up with the pressure of lifting heavy weights daily they also fail to build a long-term habit of exercise. Don’t make that mistake guys because gym is not the only solution you can always start small like I did by just adding a simple body weight workout or search for online yoga for beginners and taking one step at a time and seeing the magic happen for yourself when the positive results come after a while.

    Socialise

    3. Socialise More

    The third change that’s necessary for a longer life span is to be more social and try to maintain a healthy network of friends and family. Researchers report that maintaining healthy social networks can help you live up to 50% longer in fact, having as few as 3 social ties may decrease your risk of early death . Many studies also link healthy social networks to positive changes in heart, brain, hormonal and immune function, which may decrease the risk of chronic diseases and might also help you react less negatively to stress.

    Choose water instead of unhealthy beverages

    4. Staying hydrated

    The fourth change that can have a positive impact on our overall life is drinking more water regularly. We all know how important water is for our well being but still most of us don’t do much about improving our drinking habits. Water literally helps us with almost everything related to our overall health just to name a few benefits for example it helps us maintain our body fluids , weight loss , it helps boost our metabolism, cleanse our body of waste, acts as an appetite suppressant , refreshes our muscles , glows our skin and the list goes on so from now on drink more water and live a longer healthier life.

    Nature

    5. Leave your comfort zones

    The last but not the least change we need to make is to get out of our house or comfort zone for atleast once every day. I’ve witnessed that many people don’t get out of their house or bed only unless they really have to and that’s something very harmful to our health because in that case our body gets deprived of fresh air and oxygen which is very important for us and not to forget the sun and all that vitamin d we miss while we are to lazy to get out from bed so from now on we need to promise ourselves to get out for atleast once everyday.

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